10 CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD FRIEND

Many people complain: I have no friends. Or: “I turn away people.” Maybe you’re being a good friend? Here we remember the …

10 CHARACTERISTICS OF A GOOD FRIEND

1 – You do not solve the problem of your friend, you help to solve.

When we have a problem, we immediately ask for help from friends. Some may help, others do not.

However, a friend does not expect that the other has an obligation to solve all the problems of friends, but you can at least encourage friends to solve their problems and suggest solutions. On the other hand, if a friend can not help each other, should explain why. It is also interesting that a true friend look for the friend in trouble from time to time and ask if he could solve the problem.

2 – You hear your friend’s problem, without judging.

There is nothing worse than vent about a problem and a friend make a judgment that will leave us worse off than we are. If your friend had an unexpected pregnancy, she did not want to hear a judgment about the fact, much less a religious judgment. She just wants her friend for support.

3 – You are next to the friend without asking anything in return.

And that friend who is just beside us when we are in favorable financial position or when we are in good health? But that disappears when we are under? A real friend is beside us in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer. Other than that, it’s not a friend. It is also interesting to note that there are friends who disappear when we are in good standing. Amazingly, it happens. A true friend does not see the volume of the of the wallets of friends.

4 – You remember the friend from time to time.

You went to live in China. And now, you will abandon all friends? No. From time to time, contact with friends just to say hi. The internet serves to it. A simple message can make the day to a sad friend.

5 – You speak more fun things than sad.

There is nothing worse than people who only see the bad side of things. No one wants to have a pessimistic or bitter friend. If you are on a bad day, do not go bothering friends. Talk to friends only when you have something nice to say.

6 – You do not give opinion, unless requested.

Your friend shows up with the most ridiculous pants in the world. What you say? Nothing. He does not want your opinion. And there are people who insists on giving opinion on everything and criticize everything what friends do? Certainly because they want to have few friends. On the other hand, if your friend asks your opinion, you can give it delicately. Saying “I did not like” is nicer than “your pants is the most ridiculous thing I’ve seen in my life.” Let us also remember that there are people who do not spare praise sincere and care about what friends do. And that true friends do not lip service.

7 – You demonstrate that likes to be by friend’s side.

How do you want to have many friends if we do not invite your friends to go out? Do not be expecting them to invite you out. A friend of mine told me once: “I do not get letters.” I replied: “You will only receive letters if sending letters.” Your friends will like just being next to you if you demonstrate that likes to be on their side.

8 – You take care of the cat.

What is a friend? A friend does not have an obligation to solve the problem of a friend, as above, but certainly a friend can never say to another: “When I needed you most, you turned your back on me.”

9 – You are a good influence.

Nobody wants to have a friend dishonest, who does not like to work, which is gossip, which is violent. It is no use saying, “people have to accept me as I am” because no one will accept as you are, unless you are a person of integrity.

10 – You share information.

Your friends are not your competitors. … Are your friends. Someone has said, you get back what you give to the world.